

The strangest ones are the ones who ask for the most unexpected things. I enjoy this sort of play because it draws these insane reactions out of the subs that make the session so memorable. My favorite sorts of play are corporal punishment, medical play, CBT and ballbusting, nipple torture and heavy degradation scenes. I love inflicting pain, both physical and mental, and am a sadist through and through. Just like you would research a new doctor before letting her test your tonsils, you should check your dominatrix’s website for a list of services to make sure she’s the right one to tease your testes. You also may want to brush up on your BDSM lingo.

If you’re a total BDSM newbie, you’ll want to make sure your dominatrix is willing to take you on as a client many pro-dommes are picky about who they will let serve them. Your own level of experience is important when choosing the right pro-domme, which is why we’ve put together a list of LA’s best dominatrixes featuring mistresses with a full spectrum of experience and expertise. This is why most sessions with a pro-domme (professional dominatrix) are carefully thought out and planned beforehand by the mistress to make sure they are uniquely tailored to, and enjoyed by, each particular sub. A truly professional and experienced dominatrix is more like a guide through the less accessible sexual pleasure that some men-and women-find in the acts of submission or masochism, both in and out of a dungeon. Sure, you can go online and find someone who will gladly take your money, slap you around a bit and then have sex with you-but that’s not a service provided by a dominatrix. You might be surprised to learn that a profession technically classified as “sex work” does not involve any actual sex. There’s a common misconception that BDSM is always about pain, but it’s really about the sensations. A professional dominatrix is skilled at applying the right kind of pain that can make her masochistic, submissive client cry out in pleasure.
